I remember being at my first baby shower and everyone telling me how I was glowing and how fabulous I looked. I don’t remember any moms discussing their horrific deliveries or how awful they felt after giving birth.
There was so much “oohing” an “ahhing” it seemed like this whole “having a baby thing” was going to be a piece-of-cake. As I think back, I remember some of the surprising things that no one tells you after having a baby.
5 Surprising Things No One Tells You After Having A Baby
1. Your Maternity Clothes Will Be Your Best Friend
After giving birth, you think you’re going to have your pilates belly back right away. But actually, you don’t!
It takes some time for your body and all those hormones to get back to normal. At this time, you need to embrace your maternity jeans or pants that you were ready to pack up. It’s all about comfort, so make them your bestie for a few months longer.
2. Your Hair Will Fall Out.. I Mean A Lot
Your hair is fantastic when you’re pregnant! It’s so gorgeous you could do a shampoo commercial. But then after giving birth, you notice piles of hair on the bathroom floor. The top of your head looks like George Costanza and you could literally make a wig from your hairbrush. But don’t fret, this to shall pass. In 6 to 8 months, you will begin to feel and look like your old self again.
3. You’ll Never Sleep The Same Way Again
When you’re a new mom, you’re able to hear every cry, creak and crack in the middle of the night. After the fourth or fifth feeding, you try falling back to sleep, but you hear a whimper.
You think you hear the baby, then you go back to sleep. You think you hear the baby, then you go back to sleep. There’s the baby, as you spring from the bed. Night time becomes daytime and daytime becomes night time. Remember, take those naps during the day. It may be the only sleep you’ll get.
4. Your Sex Drive Will Fizzle
After a week of no sleep, spit up on your clothes and not showering for a few days, the last thing on your mind is sex. You’re not feeling particularly sexy at this stage. There’s a little human needing you all day, it’s almost impossible to deal with a big needy one. It does come back. I think!?! Try Argin Max. My doctor recommended it (Consult with yours before taking)